zomg I just got back from the best workshop UW-Waukesha ever had! It was all about the Anatomy of Pleasure -- in both men and women.
Sex education usually just goes over the reproductive issues and attempts to scare us into not having sex by showing when penis goes here, ejaculates there, 9 months later "OH MY GOD WHAT THE HELL IS COMING OUT OF THAT WOMAN'S VAGINA?!"
But when it comes to the actual feelings and experiences of pleasure... well they tend to skip over that. Because sex is supposed to be for making babies, not personal enjoyment!
BULLSHIT!!!
This workshop was simply kick ass. The woman running it owns her own feminist sex shop in Milwaukee called the "TOOL SHED" It is a sex shop where you can come in and then leave feeling clean and happy (according to a customer who opened up the discussion, an actual teacher at UW-W!). And that is a rarity to be enjoyed, yes?
The workshop leader -- Laura Ann -- taught the entire audience (students and professors alike) about all the various body parts within the human body. Like did you know woman can ejaculate out of their G-spot? And the reason it is called the G-spot is because when its hit just right you cry out God's name? (My own joke, thank you very much.)
Here are some of the body parts, as well as interesting facts, I learned in the workshop:
- only 25% of women get an orgamsn through vaginal penetration alone
- sex is not limited to vaginal penetration
- when you are about the ejaculate out of your G-spot, it will feel like you are about to pee. Men get the same feeling before they ejaculate but you don't see them running to the bathroom! So, ladies, before you play around with that spot, go to the bathroom first so you know you are not going to stain anything. And go ahead and lay some towels down or go ahead and practice in the bathtub. It is a good idea to be aroused, or even have an orgasm, before playing with yourself otherwise it could get painful.
- Speaking of which, if something starts to hurt during sex - STOP. It means you are doing it wrong, or maybe you just can't get off with a certain sex act. Thats fine. Do something else that gets your rocks off!
- the clitoris has over 10,000 nerve endings. HELLS YEAH.
- use flavored condoms for oral sex. you can still get STDs from unprotected sex, so suck off a orange while you suck off your boyfriend. wow that was dirty, especially for me!
- Ever hear of the PC muscle? Both guys and ladies have it. It is a muscle that extends from your pubic bone to the tailbone. It wraps around the anus and the vagina, supporting your pelvic muscles. When you orgasm, this muscle contracts again and again and again -- this is the pleasure you are feeling when you peak and finally climax. So these muscles are pretty freaking important, yes? haha.
If you want more information, go to this excellent website I came across: http://www.scarleteen.com/ You have a question? They have the answer. Enjoy yourselves!!
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